{"id":2442,"date":"2020-02-06T21:25:18","date_gmt":"2020-02-06T21:25:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/zatma.org\/?p=2442"},"modified":"2020-02-06T21:25:18","modified_gmt":"2020-02-06T21:25:18","slug":"these-bones","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/zatma.org\/?p=2442","title":{"rendered":"These Bones!"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"contentsContainer\">\n<div id=\"contents\">\n<p id=\"E43\"><span id=\"E44\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\"><a href=\"https:\/\/zatma.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Bones-scaled.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-2443 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/zatma.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Bones-300x211.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"211\" srcset=\"https:\/\/zatma.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Bones-300x211.jpg 300w, https:\/\/zatma.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Bones-1024x720.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/zatma.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Bones-768x540.jpg 768w, https:\/\/zatma.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Bones-1536x1080.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/zatma.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Bones-2048x1441.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/zatma.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/Bones-240x169.jpg 240w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p id=\"E45\"><span id=\"E46\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\">After the test showed that my bones now officially qualify as osteoporotic, (bone density low enough to cause potentially serious hip and vertebral fractures) I sat with a nurse to learn my options. I asked many questions, took notes.<\/span><\/p>\n<p id=\"E47\"><span id=\"E48\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\">Then I walked home, my mind spinning with so many questions. What should I do? How will I treat this new threat to my well-being as I age? <\/span><span id=\"E49\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\">Was there a natural way to increase bone density I could trust? Or s<\/span><span id=\"E50\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\">hould I follow the medical model of treatment using powerful drugs? <\/span><span id=\"E51\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\">D<\/span><span id=\"E52\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\">rugs promis<\/span><span id=\"E53\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\">e<\/span><span id=\"E54\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\"> to increase bone density but <\/span><span id=\"E55\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\">at such a high cost with their <\/span><span id=\"E56\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\">numerous down-sides. <\/span><span id=\"E57\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\">On the other hand are <\/span><span id=\"E58\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\">my memories of my grandmother in acute pain from spinal fractures, <\/span><span id=\"E59\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\">she who did not have <\/span><span id=\"E60\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\">drug treatment options for her <\/span><span id=\"E61\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\">crippling <\/span><span id=\"E62\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\">osteoporosis thirty years ago.<\/span><\/p>\n<p id=\"E63\"><span id=\"E64\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\">I stayed up late, reading online to learn more. Sleep, when it came, was not restful.<\/span><\/p>\n<p id=\"E65\"><span id=\"E66\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\">Gratitude abounds for the morning practice of sitting meditation. Once again, out of the silence and stillness: Wisdom. I recognized that I was picking and choosing, my mind adrift in a sea of potential options I must evaluate, eliminate, <\/span><span id=\"E67\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\">advocate.<\/span><span id=\"E68\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\"> The aversion to past and future pains and sufferings fell away. So did the desire to know the perfect strategy that would protect me from harm.<\/span><\/p>\n<p id=\"E69\"><span id=\"E70\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\">It all let go into the here and now, such a relief. From HERE, I could rest into the great unfolding. I could trust that the next right step would emerge, one that wasn\u2019t up to this picking and choosing \u201cme.\u201d HERE, there is trust that each step in this new journey of osteoporosis is taken without attachment to the outcome, without clinging to any particular direction, every choice, every move emerging from a unique moment in time and space, no static correct treatment to hold on to.<\/span><\/p>\n<p id=\"E71\"><span id=\"E72\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\">The only unchanging truth is this: these bones and the body that houses them will ultimately fail completely. No treatment options for that medical truth. <\/span><\/p>\n<p id=\"E73\"><span id=\"E74\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\">W<\/span><span id=\"E75\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\">e take care of the bod<\/span><span id=\"E76\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\">ies<\/span><span id=\"E77\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\"> as well as we can. <\/span><span id=\"E78\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\">Our<\/span><span id=\"E81\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\"> heart<\/span><span id=\"E82\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\">s<\/span><span id=\"E83\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\"> and mind<\/span><span id=\"E84\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\">s<\/span><span id=\"E85\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\"> however <\/span><span id=\"E86\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\">are<\/span><span id=\"E87\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\"> where the real work lies. There<\/span><span id=\"E88\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\">, the most effective treatment is spiritual truth. We remind the mind over and over to realize the changing nature of all things, to remember <\/span><span id=\"E89\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\">its own impermanence<\/span><span id=\"E90\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\"> and<\/span><span id=\"E91\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\"> to submit<\/span><span id=\"E92\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\"> to the light of impermanence. We remind the mind to submit every experience of change, <\/span><span id=\"E93\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\">aging and sickness to the wise scrutiny of no picking, no choosing. No right, no wrong. No wanting, no <\/span><span style=\"font-family: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit;\">knowing. Trusting each moment to show us the way.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<h4 class=\"centerinside\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"hummingbird aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/old.zatma.org\/Dharma\/zbohy\/Images\/birdborder.gif\" alt=\"Humming Bird\" width=\"540\" height=\"35\" \/><\/h4>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span id=\"E962\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\">Lao <\/span><span id=\"E964\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\">Huo<\/span><span id=\"E966\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\"> <\/span><span id=\"E968\" class=\"qowt-font2-TimesNewRoman\">Shakya<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">ZATMA is not a blog.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u00a0If for some reason you need elucidation on the teaching,<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">please contact editor at:\u00a0<a href=\"mailto:yao.xiang.editor@gmail.com\" data-slimstat=\"5\">yao.xiang.editor@gmail.com\u00a0<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"contentsContainer\">\n<div id=\"contents\">\n<p>Image Credit: Howie Hearn from Flagstaff, AZ.\u00a0 Sculpture:\u00a0 &#8220;I Told You We Would Win That War.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Lao Huo Shakya speaks to us about the truth of the body.<br \/>\nDon&#8217;t miss this short, sweet and strong truth.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":1730,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"neve_meta_sidebar":"","neve_meta_container":"","neve_meta_enable_content_width":"","neve_meta_content_width":0,"neve_meta_title_alignment":"","neve_meta_author_avatar":"","neve_post_elements_order":"","neve_meta_disable_header":"","neve_meta_disable_footer":"","neve_meta_disable_title":"","advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[13,1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2442","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-essays-by-yao-xiang-shakya","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/zatma.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/old-fire-small-pic-penciled.jpeg","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/phd6fo-Do","post_mailing_queue_ids":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zatma.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2442","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zatma.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zatma.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zatma.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/6"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zatma.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2442"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/zatma.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2442\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2448,"href":"https:\/\/zatma.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2442\/revisions\/2448"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zatma.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1730"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zatma.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2442"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zatma.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2442"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zatma.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2442"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}