{"id":4875,"date":"2025-05-19T18:33:07","date_gmt":"2025-05-19T18:33:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/zatma.org\/?p=4875"},"modified":"2025-05-19T18:33:07","modified_gmt":"2025-05-19T18:33:07","slug":"response-to-being-hurt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/zatma.org\/?p=4875","title":{"rendered":"Response to Being Hurt"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"pencraft pc-display-flex pc-flexDirection-column pc-gap-12 pc-paddingLeft-8 pc-paddingRight-8 pc-paddingTop-12 pc-paddingBottom-12 pc-alignItems-flex-end pc-reset\">\n<div class=\"line-DsYVXw indent-2-yiZ6hb\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"line-DsYVXw\"><a href=\"https:\/\/yaoxiangeditor.substack.com\/p\/response-to-being-hurt?utm_campaign=email-half-post&amp;r=2sxfgv&amp;utm_source=substack&amp;utm_medium=email\"><img decoding=\"async\" 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